What is patience? I think it means that you can tolerant the infection from others, stay calm and have a clear mind with peace.
I must to say that I'm not a patient person. I can't endure waiting for long line to get a stuff,even it's really good. I will be anxious if my partner or team don't have a clear idea or schedule. I can not focus on one thing for long time. My hobby and interesting always change.
That makes me feel upset and sometimes I hate myself being so annoy. Everything needs patience. I realize patience is really important. You can't do things well if you don't have patience. However, another question bothers me, how can we be patience? I think the way is try to accept these bad emotions, not defense. Another way is recognize that impatience has arisen, then change your mind. For example, when I stuck in traffic, I would feel very angry and nowhere to release, then I recognize that I'm "impatienting", so I start to think about why I need to angry? It's not make sense. Being angry can't solve the problem. In other word, there's nothing I can do. Why don't we use the free time listen music or plan to do another thing? Then I don't feel angry anymore.
Practicing to be patient is not easy, it's a long term marathon. However, it makes me change a lot. We need to have more tolerant to others and ourself.
